Is this a question your find you keep asking yourself, "How do I get back with my ex girlfriend?" You need to realise this is a very fragile situation. Her feelings may be hurt. You also may be hurting, but it's important to tread carefully to avoid any further hurt.
A few things to take into account while you work out how to get back with your ex girlfriend.
1.. You need to figure out what you did to make her split with you. Girls hardly break up with guys out of the blue for no reason, so try to work out what it was that you did. The female animal is a curious thing so figuring out what you did may not be easy, but if you can figure it out you will know whether you could have prevented the break up. You will also learn what's needed to fix it.
2.. If it was all your fault, you need to let her know. Tell her you now realize how stupid you were, that it was your fault and that you are sincerely sorry.
3.. Live your life. Even though your aim is to win her back you shouldn't stop seeing friends of both sexes. Maybe date another girl. This could well spark a hint of jealousy in your ex that will bring her back.
4.. Show her that you really still care about her but you are starting to move on in your life. She will realise that you are more mature and you are starting to live again. You will become more desirable in her eyes.
5.. Lastly, work hard to become firm friends with your ex again. This builds trust and brings you closer together. More importantly it brings you a bit closer to your goal of getting back with your ex.
When you get back together you need to carefully find out why you broke up. She will either tell you the breakup was a mistake, or that she thinks the break up was good (for her at least). When you have this information you can make
You can make these steps the beginning of your "get her back" plan. I used these steps when my girl dumped me. You must take some action though, it won't happen by itself. No action = no results.
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